Clothes or Costume?

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The article in today’s NY Times about the goths, punks, and drag queens who fit in perfectly at their places of employment - Halloween costume stores - while being cast as fashion misfits in the world at large struck an emotional cord with us.

When we were in college, one day our across-the-hall neighbor - a very conservatively-dressed Psychology major- came knocking on our dorm room door. She wanted to know if she could borrow some of our clothes for her Halloween costume. “Something funky, you know - like the stuff that youwear,” she explained.

“My costume is going to be like ’80s girl,” she continued, while amusedly sorting through our collection of large vintage earrings, party dresses, colored tights, and tight black jeans. “Your clothes are so funny. Oh my god, can I actually wear this in public,” she asked, holding up one of my most cherished thrift store finds, a tight vintage 1980s black and silver Betsey Johnson skirt.

Of course it wouldn’t have been in the Barnard sisterhood-is-powerful spirit to not help her out. But we have to confess, we were somewhat dismayed to have our everyday gear pronounced “the perfect Halloween costume.”

We’ll be the first to admit that many of our college fashion choices were regrettable (an outfit that included ripped purple leggings and a leopard-print miniskirt comes to mind), but what do you do when your personal style is another girl’s idea of a costume?

—ALISON COOL

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posted by zinzi

Oct 31, 2007 4:38PM

similar story from my freshman year. one of my friends wanted to go as a "mod girl", wore my clothes and told me later that everyone had asked her why she was dressed up at me for halloween...

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posted by nadarine

Oct 31, 2007 4:54PM

Alison, I do this out of love: it's "struck a chord" (like on a musical instrument), not "struck a cord" (as if you hit a bootlace).
yes, I am letting my inner editor roam free today.

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posted by Natalie G.

Oct 31, 2007 5:16PM

that barnard comment FTW!

and i say, shake them off. at least your outfits are memorable enough for them to kinda dress like you for the day.

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posted by Olivia

Oct 31, 2007 5:27PM

Rejoice that I'm not completely boring?

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posted by m

Oct 31, 2007 7:02PM

i was walking down the street last friday night with a friend and some dude calls out, "look it's the strokes!"

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posted by ashley o

Oct 31, 2007 7:35PM

um why do you always use the plural possessive, like "our clothes" and say "we"??

If really you just mean your clothes, your college, your life??

You didn't both go to Barnard (Faran went to Duke), so I don't get it.

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posted by aet

Oct 31, 2007 8:25PM

yay barnard!

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posted by Clar

Oct 31, 2007 10:23PM

agreed about the royal we....that's what made me stop reading bunnyshop

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posted by Jus

Nov 01, 2007 12:22AM

I had the very same thought this afternoon when someone asked me if I was the roaring twenties.

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posted by Ty-Ty

Nov 01, 2007 3:29AM

My friend dressed as an "80s aerobic teacher/punky brewster" and sported her own everyday clothes for it. Totally pulled it off btw.

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posted by savvy

Nov 01, 2007 6:27AM

you dont do anything, all you think is... "you'll be wearing this religiously in a year or two"

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posted by RMF

Nov 01, 2007 10:25AM

It's just apples & oranges! You could've just as easily borrowed her clothes and gone as a librarian/Nancy Reagan/etc. Anything outside your personal style is a costume. I went to an "Evil Preppy" party in a (borrowed) headband and oxford shirt and never felt so uncomfortable.

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posted by M

Nov 01, 2007 11:09AM

Consider it imitation, rather than mocking, and take it as a compliment! This girl had felt confined to a limited repertoire of apparel and saw Halloween not as a chance to look scary but as a chance to wear something she'd otherwise feel too self-conscious to, and with none of the risk involved with wearing it on a regular day. The holiday was just an excuse for experimentation, the way girls will also often wear something trashy and men will dress in drag. People are curious, but afraid.

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posted by miriam

Nov 01, 2007 11:38AM

I go to villanova, and not being from the main line, think the caricature-like preppiness that people wear here is the perfect halloween costume. it can go both ways.

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posted by L. Ashely

Nov 01, 2007 10:10PM

This has happened to me so many times that now I just say no. It is not my fault that everything I own is looks like a flight attendant from the 60's. Just because their clothes are boring and they depend on Target for costumes doesn't mean I owe them my style.
Stand firm and don't let those girls trivialize your wicked sense of style!

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