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What If You Are the Trend?

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Earlier today, there was a comment about the must-have bangs, as seen on Kate Moss:

“I’ve had these for years before they were trendy,” wrote the mysterious Number Five. “What can I do when they’re over?”

The remark leads to something we’ve been meaning to explore:

What happens when trends encroach on your personal style?

Case in point: The fauxhemians.

When I was in high school, I had a sheepskin coat, a pile of Indian tunics, wide leg jeans, and Eskimo boots that would later be called Uggs. This was years before Almost Famous, when Sienna was still at boarding school and I just wanted to look like my mom’s vintage album covers.

In college, girls started wearing peasant blouses - and not just the cool girls, but the popular girls, too. Earlier in the year, they’d shunned me for mocking Lilly Pulitzer. Now they tried to steal my dry cleaning. And months later, magazines proclaimed my look as “over.” But how could it be finished when it never really started?

I clung to the Boho thing until last year, when Rachel Zoe turned my style into a factory production, Tory Burch brought it to soccer moms (left), and I went as Penny Lane for Halloween - in all my own, normal clothes. “Okay,” I thought, “If I can do this as a costume, maybe something needs to change.”

I bought some straight leg jeans. I found a pea coat. Last week I actually decided I could wear a blazer - albeit a long one, with white piping and too much attitude.

I think part of it was just growing up - new job, new friends, a shift in the way I was thinking and living… and therefore, a much-needed shopping trip. But sometimes I wonder - should I have surrendered my signature style to Nicole and Keira, or clung to its tenants until the trendoids moved on?

—FARAN

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posted by Susan

Oct 17, 2007 1:40PM

I think you know what the answer is....If you have always felt most comfortable wearing a certain color, or range of analogous colors, then I don't think that trends or particular designers can touch you. You will always look like you. You will always look confident and will know with what to accessorize in order to look fresh. If it's not a color, it's likely a combination of separates that drape the best on your frame - and you know it. Trends tend to look cheap for a reason. That's why they should never be an investment. But bohemian is classic, isn't it? It's not really a trend so much a younger generation discovering the look of the 1970s. If one isn't in full knowledge of the cultural understanding of the origin of a trend, then it will look....silly. Something tells me you knew what was what when you wore your many bracelets and tunics.

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posted by Ellen

Oct 17, 2007 2:09PM

Well said, Susan. I agree. If you feel comfortable with your style, you should stick with it. The style mavens will eventually move on.

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posted by Tammy

Oct 17, 2007 3:04PM

There was something rather ego-centric about that post that is a bit cloying. Can you really claim ownership on a style? I don't think you can. What does another girl take for you when she dresses in a similar way?

I believe a true personal style implies you dress to reflect who you are. Who you are is not going to change based upon if other girls are wearing similar clothing. If it does, I would suspect your "personal style" is premised not on identity but on wanting to be different.

Did you wear the boho look to aspire to be the hippie girls on your mom's album? Or did you embody what those girls were so that your way of dress was personal style? If not, you were just coping someone else's look too.

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posted by Cindy D

Oct 17, 2007 3:20PM

who cares what other people think.. dress how you like that's always the best way to go about your life. NOT to worry about it.

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posted by guest

Oct 17, 2007 3:55PM

This entire posting just makes me want to stop coming to this site. I actually like the site. I just get so irritated with Faran's relentless self-aggrandising. Faran you don't get points for ripping off somebody elses style before the masses do.

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posted by Faran

Oct 17, 2007 4:08PM

Alas for you, I think this entire site might be my relentless self-aggrandizing. But if you think you can do better, you should definitely email me about taking the associate editor job. I love people who leave comments about Warhol and Karl... oops, you listed that one as anonymous too... oh well, email me anyway ;)

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posted by Kelli

Oct 17, 2007 4:19PM

I think you guys are just looking for something to complain about. There's nothing wrong with this post, it's a girl talking about the same problems most people who love fashion face - there's a time when you don't want to look like everyone else. If you're unfulfilled with your own life and need to complain on a site, go away. This is for the ones who love fashion!

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posted by steph

Oct 17, 2007 4:35PM

farran, you've lost what you never really had.

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posted by Olivia

Oct 17, 2007 4:41PM

I wore Ugg boots as a child. In Australia and NZ they were the (indoor) slippers we'd wear when it got cold. Ugg boots have been around since before either of us were born!

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posted by hannah

Oct 17, 2007 5:26PM

If you hate Faran so much, why do you bother to read and comment on this site? I feel bad for Faran. It's so easy to be mean to people online. You don't have to say it to their face, and they'll never know your real name. Sometimes she can seem a little vain, but hell, who isn't vain every once in a while? Besides, it's fashion people!

Anyway, I kinda know what you're talking about. At my old school, no one really wore anything trendy or fashionable. I started to wear skinny jeans, which were just starting to show up in stores, and they became my signature look. But now at my new school more girls are wearing skinny jeans and more trendy things, and it kind of annoys me, like they're copying my style, even though they obviously aren't.

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posted by marchesa

Oct 17, 2007 5:41PM

Regardless of all that- whether it's yours or not, or individuality, after a while things start to get overexposed. You get tired of it. It's one thing to wear it every day, and it's totally different to see it thrust in your face, in bad imitations on the street and in every magazine, tabloid, and on TV.
I used to love Victoriana; still do, to a point, but I've moved away from it. It's interesting, but I'd rather find something rare in a thrift store than a cheap copy in the mall. The cheap copy devalued it for me.

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posted by guest

Oct 17, 2007 5:57PM

i know exactly what you mean. instead of looking original and like yourself it makes you look like an outdated fashion victim. and seriously why are people so mean? as if life isnt hard enough without the extra stress of people's negativity!

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posted by Selon

Oct 17, 2007 6:16PM

Dissing on the internet...gold medal in the paralympics...blah blah...some politically incorrect punchline. Sigh.

Anyway, it's not just the fact that style-sheep steal/imitate something that is so personal to you, it's the fact that, when everyone's doing it, imitations become cheaper, diluted and eventually grating. Even if it is your own personal style, you start to resent it and long for that individuality again. It's a really childlike emotion. You want to scream "Give me my style back!" but you would sound like an absolute twat and, of course, you were never the first.

Then again, if we think it's bad, imagine how Kate Moss feels...

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posted by bmt

Oct 17, 2007 7:01PM

I heart Faran.

Unless one of you is Kate Moss or the ghost of Jackie O I think you can keep your enlightening insights on personal style to yourselves.

Or start your own blog.

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posted by 5

Oct 17, 2007 8:17PM

Its just about modifying your "look", which sometimes hurts. I've done every shape of bangs there is, though I don't know if I could do the alternate colour a-la-marc.

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posted by katherine

Oct 17, 2007 8:45PM

all fashion is vanity. of course some posts sound vain because we're talking about how we look. anyone who loves fashion has to admit that we enjoy it because it is self indulgent. But it helps us develop as people, as all self expression does. So, Faran gets to do it for her job, and we get to enjoy it and talk about it together.

anyway, I had a similar problem last year when I did the whole bangs hair cut, then everyone got it. Now I'm stuck in that awkward growing out phase wondering, what do I want next that won't be worn by everyone else at the same time?

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posted by Ani

Oct 17, 2007 11:12PM

Very good point Selon.
Faran, it's funny that fashion editors have proclaimed the boho look "tired", when a few of the taste-makers in Europe had a whole "nouveau" boho moment peppered with Native American and floral mofits for their spring 08 collections. I think if you feel a particular look works for you, then stick with it a la old-school editors like Carrie Donovan, Diana Vreeland, China Machado and Carmel Snow. Those ladies had an authentic and signature look. :)

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posted by Bonnie Lass

Oct 17, 2007 11:52PM

I don't think one should ever get rid of their style. It should be more about modifying your look so that it CAN last the abrupt rise and fall of being trendy. Tone it down or flaunt it, keep key pieces you know are a one-of-a-kind, reinvent it with a new inspiration ...

I think having one's 'thing' come into the mainstream should be considered more of a personal challenge than a whimpering defeat.

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posted by Tammy

Oct 18, 2007 1:40PM

I like the site guys. Don't get so worked up if someone doesn't like a post. A fashion blog would be boring if everyone is in agreement all the time. And it's dangerous to bully someone for expressing his/her opinion (even if he/she is a bully)

What interests me most about fashion is the philosophy behind it. I actually think that the philosophy of fashion is what keeps the engine going. Thought, imagination, interpretation, and the SUBJECTIVE, are what takes clothes/shoes/accessories as physical objects to another level so that they become interesting as topics of discussion.

So my point is that defining personal style is a very subjective question and is very open to debate. I disagree with how Faran's post seemed to define style and others did too. So what. You don't need to get so worked up.

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posted by WendyB

Oct 18, 2007 2:51PM

Good post, because people constantly bring this issue up ("but I did it first, do I have to stop to maintain my coolness?") and Susan gave the right answer in the first comment. And I'd also refer people to the tagline for my blog which is "Wear what you want." That's the simple solution, right? Who cares what everyone is doing as long as you're happy. And if you're not happy, you'll go in a different direction. Easy!

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posted by Aja

Oct 22, 2007 10:11AM

Faran, I love how you respond to negative things. You have a beautiful sense of knowing peppered with good humour (and patience) and I'm not just blowing smoke up your ass :)

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