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fashionmeetsfinanceparty.jpgYesterday it was announced that those Fashion Meets Finance events are starting up again because apparently the recession is over - a truly interesting limb to step out on for anyone who’s actually paying attention to the world.

I didn’t want to write much about it because, frankly, I’ve always found the events to be rather gross, and kind of tacky. Sure there are many a couple I know where the man works in finance and the woman works in fashion. But, let’s just let that happen organically, okay. The whole thing just creeps me out. But I digress.

Over at our sister site Dealbreaker, we learned that even the RSVP list is looking a little shady. They got a tip from a fashion publicist reader that someone was falsely using her picture to RSVP. The story’s still unfolding, as now the finance guys are weighing in that many on the list don’t work where they say they do or are grossly overestimating their roles and salaries.

So if you were actually thinking of going, which I would really hope you wouldn’t do for oh-so many reasons, maybe the fact that there are likely to be a bunch of lying scammers roaming around will stop you.

That is all.

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posted by guest

Jul 30, 2009 7:56PM

if there was a gay version of this, i'd so be there..

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posted by guest

Jul 30, 2009 8:12PM

hmm... I had always thought that this was more network-y than speed date-y. Admittedly, I never looked closely at it, but I was imagining more of a place to go to find funding for your new business venture, not to find funding for when daddy's trust fund runs out

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posted by guest

Jul 30, 2009 8:49PM

Ew.

Gross.

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posted by Hannah A

Jul 30, 2009 10:36PM

The whole... idea is one big, Creepasaurus Rex. Yuck.

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posted by guest

Jul 30, 2009 11:12PM

This event literally disgusts me more than anything I have ever seen. How offensive. It implies that women in fashion are brainless bimbos whose only ambition is to meet a rich man and marry him so she never has to lift a finger again. It implies that women in fashion are unable to comprehend (or care about) the state of the economy, and that their only concern is how it affects their ability to fund their shopping sprees. It generalizes women in the industry to be money grubbing dimwits. Well, I am a woman in fashion, and I have to say, regardless of how much money I have, regardless of how much money my future husband makes, I want to and will always work and make a living for myself. Contrary to what this appalling piece of s*** says, I actually do have a brain, and a business education from one of the top 5 schools in the country, and yes, I do understand the repercussions of the plummeting stock market and the collapse of the banks, and yes, I do want to work and make something of myself. This event absolutely disgusts me, and I hope anyone who considers going reconsiders for the sake of her dignity.

Stephanie

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posted by Signature9

Jul 31, 2009 7:44AM

Just spotted a Facebook friend under a completely different name. She also does PR for some smaller designers. @5, maybe you don't have to worry that women in fashion are buying into this anyway. Seems like an awful lot of lifted photos on the female RSVP side.

http://www.signature9.com

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posted by guest

Jul 31, 2009 8:08AM

there is a girl from chanel on that list!!! karl would throw a fit

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posted by darcykins

Jul 31, 2009 9:59AM

That is so weird.

Does this mean that all of the men are in finance and all the women are in fashion?
what about women who work in finance and men who work in fashion? are they not allowed to go?

I thought it was, as guest #2 said more of a networking thing but the line on the website "Ladies, you don't need to worry that the cute guy in the bar works in advertising" makes me feel otherwise.

Wow.

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posted by darcykins

Jul 31, 2009 10:01AM

OH, and the whole listing salaries thing.
This is so disgusting to me.

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posted by guest

Jul 31, 2009 10:01AM

If you read down the list of people, they pretty much rejected all the women who either make too much money/ or work in finance, and all the guys who work in fashion

wow this is disgusting

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posted by guest

Jul 31, 2009 11:18AM

I bet it's full of a bunch of guys who end their sentences by saying..."ladies"?!. You know like, "I'm getting another drink...... Ladies"!?!? then he turns his palms up and gives a cheesy smile. Or, "I'm just going to run to the bathroom....ladies"!?!?!

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posted by guest

Jul 31, 2009 11:27AM

OK, listen to this (from their website):

"Fashion Meets Finance has returned to let the women of fashion know that the recession is officially over."

"Hold on. It will only be a couple more years until you can quit your job and become a tennis mom."

So whats that supposed to mean? If they manage to hold on (to what?) they'll be able to snag a nice guy in Finance and quit their job?

Fools in Finance who came up with this concept - maybe there's a reason women didnt want to meet you at a bar before, and maybe it has nothing to do with the bars being in the Financial District.

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posted by RashomonRebel

Jul 31, 2009 11:28AM

The girls have to submit their picture so they can rate their attractiveness?

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posted by guest

Jul 31, 2009 11:36AM

I'm sorry, but I love this. Shit makes me laugh. And who is that girl making 74 grand as a production assistant!??! Sure as hell beats my 34k a year production assistant job at elle two years ago.

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posted by guest

Jul 31, 2009 11:40AM

NO way! you are in auto finance documentation analysis!?!? you are my DREAM boy! you must have sooooo many interesting stories!!! you are like, 12 times more interesting and hot than my ex boyfriend air force fighter pilot ex and my national geographic photo journalist ex.

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posted by nycshoegal

Jul 31, 2009 12:06PM

hhaha this is hilarious. have you read their copy? i'm dying. ahhh all the douchebags and bimbos of the world, unite!
can we get Trojan to sponsor this event and make sure they don't procreate?

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posted by southweststyle

Jul 31, 2009 1:02PM

@ 16 - about about a Vasectomy booth in the back!!

The whole concept is so...just...ew.

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posted by rachael

Jul 31, 2009 2:05PM

ew is all I can say.
the sad part is....I know girls who would jump at the opportuntiy to go to something like this.


http://alittlesomethingshiny.blogspot.com/

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posted by guest

Jul 31, 2009 4:14PM

douche bag pigs meet gold digging neurotic ho's
welcome to nyc

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posted by guest

Aug 01, 2009 4:21AM

Meredith from Gilt Group is on there too!!! ICKKKK!

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posted by guest

Aug 01, 2009 10:05PM

this is all so ridiculous, there are even (supposedly) some people in high positions in fashion. i believe i spotted a buyer from bloomingdales or saks? you would think people who work in such high positions would have earned their way up with talent and intelligence and if they will actually attend this event it just erases all of that.

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posted by guest

Aug 03, 2009 8:07PM

all of you are taking this way too seriously...

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