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Boys in Girls’ Clothes

jamiehinceinkatemossclothes.jpgEver since the dawn of feminism women have been adopting menswear pieces into their wardrobes and looking cute doing so.

From the inevitable menswear spreads in the September sssues of magazines to the Jean Paul Gaultier ads featuring Raquel Zimmerman in woman and man form, women in men’s clothing has become the social norm and not the least bit shocking. Isn’t every woman’s favorite “morning-at-boyfriend’s-apartment” activity going through his wardrobe and snagging a few shirts and sweaters?

But a man in a skirt or hot pants? Likely to get stares and glares. The Telegraph recently published a story about “Girlfriend Dressing” featuring pictures of Jamie Hince in what seems to be girlfriend Kate Moss’ short shorts and fitted blazer. I can’t blame him; who wouldn’t want to play dress-up in Kate Moss’ wardrobe? In all seriousness, though, why can’t men in women’s clothing be taken seriously the way women in men’s clothing can?

Almost every time a man is featured in women’s clothing in a fashion mag, there’s always a kitschy undertone or a bit of camp (not that we don’t love those Cole Mohr Marc by MJ ads). Marc Jacobs has been sporting a skirt for quite a while now and I’m totally into it, and no one looks better in Balenciaga capes than Andre Leon Talley, but why can’t more men feel comfortable in at least some women’s items? I think there’s no problem with a boy in a lady’s cardigan or short shorts (if you’ve got it flaunt it), but the outside world seems to disagree.

What about you?

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posted by maladroite

Aug 25, 2009 4:40PM

The other images don't look that shocking. Actually, they are dressed like the typical British rockers have for the past 4-5 years.

http://tdotfashion.blogspot.com

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posted by mrsPILATI

Aug 25, 2009 4:55PM

I saw a picture of Mr. Hince in bathing suit trunks (shorter than the average versions here) and I surprisingly liked it. I'm glad someone is discussing this.

I like a little leg.

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posted by NJazD

Aug 25, 2009 6:13PM

Thanks for taking about this!

ever since I came into the industry people have always question my decisions on my wardrobe. I have an exotic face, with great bone structure and women's/men's clothing that look feminine, is what i am. I don't care what people say, I am just truthful to my inner style. And it didn't hurt that certain respected individuals applauded my sense.

Definitely be always true to you.

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posted by SpanishStyle91

Aug 25, 2009 6:51PM

That is just weird.

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posted by cesarcmma

Aug 25, 2009 6:53PM

I think is nice, it can look cool when the barrier of cross-dressing isn't transpased... Mark Ronsons coat in the artivle is great I love it.

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posted by Sean

Aug 25, 2009 6:53PM

This is why you guys are great! I fully support men wearing women's clothing in earnest. I've found that gender is mostly an obstruction to cuter outfits, and since this epiphany have purchased 3 pairs of women's sneakers because my feet are small and they fit better! Plus no one can really tell anyway, depending on the style - although I'm totally up for the challenge of butching up a ruffle-front cardi from J. Crew because I love Jenna Lyons that much. Will keep you updated on that.

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posted by guest

Aug 25, 2009 7:23PM

i think its effin weird

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posted by seaninc

Aug 25, 2009 7:32PM

It's not what you wear, it's how you wear them. It's also not for everybody. If these guys can pull it off without looking like a drag queen, why not ???

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posted by Whitney

Aug 25, 2009 7:46PM

As long as the man wears the womens piece tastefully and doesnt just do it for attention or to make a point it is fine.

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posted by Amanda Jean Boyle

Aug 25, 2009 9:20PM

I love it!

However, what you have to realize when you ask "why can’t men in women’s clothing be taken seriously the way women in men’s clothing can?" is that women in men's clothing was not always so normal. Katharine Hepburn was avant-garde just for wearing pants! But she wore them because she felt most comfortable in them, and if a man feels the same way about short shorts or a women's cardigan, then that's his personal style, and that's great.

Men in women's wear has already started to gain acceptance within the fashion community and I think the rest of society (well, not everyone, there will always be haters) will in time also accept it.

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posted by glamzo

Aug 25, 2009 11:47PM

I think its fabulous when men take on women's wear, I personally do it myself. My jeans are all paint-on tight and during the summer I live in my cutoff denim seven's. I'm not saying they are cut crotch high, they stop an inch or so above the knee. I think its much more fun then wearing the average cargo short. Fitted and short makes my legs look so much longer and slimmer than they are.

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posted by Lilac

Aug 26, 2009 12:20AM

i'm glad to read the discussion after the article. Not only women need fashion, makeup, skin care product, but also men. Respect the diversity, we can choose what we like, but not restrict what we should where.

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posted by nycshoegal

Aug 26, 2009 12:02PM

it is my firm belief that "gender" is a very fluid concept. as is fashion and overall rules of acceptability. i personally always applaud the unisex lines but i also remember the time when that used to be a revolutionary concept.

That being said, there are some things that don't look as good on men as they do on women due to physical, ahem, structure...
i have no issue with men incorporating "female" clothing into their wardrobe but it needs to be size-sensitive, so i'm not necessarily all for my boy friends wearing my clothes (they would NOT fit. ever. haha)

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posted by Jean Voltaire

Aug 26, 2009 12:08PM

I have quite a bit to say. I too like taking risks with fashion all the time - that's what fashion is, it's a form of self-expression like tattoos or your hair people. Some people view fashion as simple clothes to cover your body, in other words not that important. But being a man, I have to say there is a certain line that should NOT be crossed. I don't care what people wear but if certain people want to be taken seriously, then watch what you put on. Showing skin is great but remember, there's a time and a place.

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posted by nycshoegal

Aug 26, 2009 12:56PM

oh, Re: that telegraph article - what do we suppose Jason Statham is carrying in his Bottega Veneta clutch? i'm sorry but i find this particular combo comical. i'm more used to seeing Jason clutching a gun than a Bottega

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posted by Tito Jong

Aug 26, 2009 2:43PM

Androgyny plays a big part in fashion which a lot of the norm doesn't get. I get it and I love it.

http://prahjeks.com

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posted by holyhooligan

Aug 26, 2009 5:06PM

I agree with most the things already mentioned. If a men wears women's clothing tastefully, and if it is what he's comfortable with then why not? I borrow a heck of a lot from the men's wardrobe, I think men should be allowed to do the same.

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posted by BC

Aug 26, 2009 7:07PM

I'm sort of in a rush, otherwise I would read all the previous comments to see if I'm just basically rephrasing things that other readers have already put forth, but I just want to say that I'm firmly with you on this point. I'm a male, and due to my, um, petite physical proportions (I'm 5'8" and 105 pounds), for years I've found that men's clothing is just designed to exclude me. At first I was bothered by it, in the typical way that people are when blatantly told that they don't measure up to societal standards, but after a while of wading around in baggy, ugly clothes, I said "fuck it" and wandered over to the women's department. As I see it now, the gender indicated on a label should be no hindrance to any person's incorporation of any item into their wardrobe.

I'm not a drag queen, nor do I come across as one. While my tastes are very particular and driven mostly by my intense literary and artistic background (I tend to dress in a character/narrative concpetual way), I don't have a single doubt that most males can and should experiment with the option. Frankly, the clothing designed for women is simply infinitely more interesting than that which is marketed toward men, so why not dabble a little bit? This is just my two cents on the issue.

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posted by guest

Sep 01, 2009 9:51PM

Can I just reference Lafayette in True Blood? He looks fantastic in make-up and jewelry without looking feminine or female (which are both looks you can go for, of course).

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