An LRD at Gucci s/s '13. Photo: Imaxtree

Just admit it already: Women judge each other’s clothing choices constantly. Did you really think men were any different? Here’s which styles to don and which to ditch for your online dating profile.

When it comes to clothes, our experts agree that bright is best. The most alluring color by far–holiday season or not–is (suspenseful pause…) red! As Steinberg puts simply, “Red is attractive to men.” Spira concurs, picking pink as a close second: “I always recommend that a woman wear a pink or red dress in her primary photo, as well as on the first date. Red is the color of love and passion. Pink screams femininity.” Not big on either? Steinberg suggests flattering-on-most jewel tones, but avoid black and white as they “accentuate shadows.”

And how should said red clothes fit? Is it best to show off the goods in 2-D, or leave a little to that fateful, first, hopefully inevitable in-person meeting? Steinberg says it depends on your assets. “Try a bodycon top,” she suggests. “Cleavage can be ok, as long as it’s feminine, sexy, and natural–but don’t show off your bellybutton.”

As an overall rule, avoid bathing suits and freakum dresses at all costs. You’ll definitely have a full inbox, but the messages might not be of the nature you’re going for. In the words of Stewart, “I will say if you put up sexy cleavage shots/Vegas short dresses–do NOT complain that the men who contact you make sexualized comments or approaches. Skin will always get attention–be prepared that it comes with unwanted attention as well.”

A few more tidbits: Spira recommends showcasing a “diverse” wardrobe throughout your photos to relay that you’re both “interesting and flexible.” Don’t put in contact lenses if you normally wear glasses. And sunglasses? Per Steinberg: “Hell no!” The most important thing, says Stewart, is that you feel comfortable and confident in what you choose to wear. “If you don’t,” she explains, “it affects your smile, your eyes, and ultimately your picture.”

Good:
• Red or pink
• Jewel tones
• Prescription glasses if you wear them
• Tasteful cleavage
• Body conscious clothing

Bad:
• Black or white
• Bellybutton peep show
• Sunglasses
• Bathing suits
• Too tight or revealing party dresses